The reason you don’t feel worthy of love
Children that are often unsure of themselves and unsure of others often look for love from others. Many adults seem to view the world in the exact same way unfortunately looking for others to love them before loving themselves first. As humans age we typically get stuck in ways and why shouldn’t we? Everything we’ve done has gotten us this far right? So if we always looked for others to love us first before we loved ourselves in moments of uncertainty we will do what we know how to do what we’re experts at!
Why do I feel like i’m not worthy of love?
The reason you don’t feel worthy of love is simple you haven’t learned how to love yourself first. What makes your situation worse is the fact that other people whether consciously or unconsciously are using you because of your uncertainty. When you’re uncertain of yourself other people will be uncertain of you as well. These people include family, friends, strangers and other humans, possibly even animals.
In order to feel worthy of love you must learn how to love yourself FIRST. How you love yourself first is you at the very least must find something that you love to do that is independent of any ONE individual. You don’t have to be a loner or be a lone but you must find something that you CAN love anytime you want too! A hobby, a form of entertainment, volunteering something of that nature. To feel worthy of love you need to understand what love is.
Understanding unconditional love
Have you ever loved before? Some people think they’ve loved but most people don’t understand what unconditional love is. The people most familiar with unconditional love are parents. When you’re a good parent no matter what your child or children do you’re still going to love them unconditionally. You might not agree with what they do but as they get older you learn to just let them be who they’re going to be.
This is why it’s equally as important that you be who you must be and learn to love yourself First! While you’re doing this it will be easier for you to allow others to be who they want to be. When you love yourself you will not care what others think of you, in fact you’ll love who you want to love whether they love you back. This is why some people are happy regardless of what happens to them. To feel worthy of love you mist learn to love yourself first!
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Best wishes to you and everything you do!