How to Get Over Someone You Love?
The most effective way I’ve found to get over a person you love is to stay active. Do something, do things that you like be around people that you like to be around that won’t talk to you about your lost love. Make sure that you and your actions speak loud and clear to people that you don’t want to talk or discuss this person. Remember you want to get over this person so you don’t want the person you love to be larger than they need to be, you want to focus your attention on other things.
Write down some of the things you want to do then make it your business to do them
Set realistic goals and objectives for yourself and start doing them as soon as possible. When was getting over a woman whom at the time I was in love with I made a mission to get into shape so started riding my bike every morning, I starting running around the track, at the time I remember moving circus had stop by town so I want there, I also went to allot of social gatherings, I went to the mall, I went for walks, I called and made friends who were into fun things that I was will to try.
Before I knew it 5 months went by and even though some of the feelings I had for this person were still there the bottom line was I was thinking about her a lot less and most importantly I felt a sense of accomplishment because I know knew that I could live a fruitful life with or without her. My point here is this sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself or wondering why this had to happen to you won’t solve the problem. Don’t let a lover define who you are you’re a special person and you deserve all the best things that this world has to offer.
Is Money the Problem?
If money or bills are your problem my personal advice is make paying off those bills or better yet make it mission of yours to make as much money as you can make. That’s another thing that worked for me is when I started focusing on money or anything else for that matter my lost love didn’t seem like such a big deal anymore. Again my point is you want to shift your attention from your lost love over to something constructive that will make you stronger and make you feel better about yourself.
Whatever that is you need to find, find it and stick with it, get involved in it and then one day you’ll wake up and realize the power you really do have. I’ve spoken to a lot of people who have made positive changes in their life and the one common story with all of these people was they shifted their focus from pain into joy. Whatever else makes you feel good keep doing that and enjoy those moments don’t let anyone take that enjoyment from you, because you’re deserving of it. This article was written from experience and I wish you all the best
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