How to spot a gold digger before marriage?
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So you’re in love and you feel that your partner is in love with you too. You want to get married to this person but something tells you even if you don’t have any yet that this person might be out for you money. You then ask yourself how do you spot a gold digger? The answer to this question is quite simple. Before getting married inquire to your lover about getting a “prenup” also known as a “Prenuptial agreement”.
We live in a world controlled by LAWS
In a world with LAWS and this goes way beyond money! In a world where LAWS control money, barter and marriages nothing is more important to the stability of your future than a Prenuptial agreement. If you’re afraid to ask your partner about signing a Prenuptial agreement in fear of what they might respond this should tell you who clearly wears the pants in your supposed “equal” relationship. If you’ve somehow convinced yourself that money doesn’t or your assets including possibly the assets you’ve inherited from parents, grandparents or grandparents don’t mean ANYTHING to you and the only thing that has meaning to you is your current love affair with this individual I still challenge you to ask your mate or lover what they think about signing a Prenuptial agreement.
I have nothing and my love loves me as I am why f**k should I waste money on Prenuptial agreement?
In the business world investors typically invest in a business because they believe the value of the business will go up in the future.
I’ll give you an example I had a friend who was great at football in High School he was a high school quarterback he wasn’t handsome he came from a poor family but as kids we all looked at him for his future potential of-course one could imagine that some women looked at him in the same way. Well he got married young never made the pros but because he got a scholarship to a pretty good school he was able to use that and get a good education which got him a good paying job.
Well according to him anyway his then wife anticipated that he would make the pros I mean after all she was the sexiest cheerleader in our high school and being that she had his kids and dropped out of school her expectation was that he would make the NFL make millions and they would live a nice comfortable home. Well this didn’t happen and he lost his good paying job, she then divorced him and because there was no Prenuptial agreement in place she didn’t just take all of his money she also got some control over some of his assets that he inherited from his father’s side of the family!
If you can’t talk about any and everything your relationship may be prone to unforeseen events or circumstances
What I’m hoping people can gather from the story above is gold diggers sometimes appear not because it was their original intent but because they envisioned a lifestyle for themselves that is not their current reality. When you bring up a Prenuptial agreement in forces everyone to stop and think, it will also allow both parties to see and also understand the world for what it is and not for what either one of them want it to be.
ALL free people have a right to change their minds about anything they want at any given time and we have laws in place that can assist or dismiss a persons right to make an impulsive decision. When a Prenuptial agreement is in place individually both parties are in a place to leave a relationship the same way they entered it. With a Prenuptial agreement in place the both parties have a clearer understanding of what will happen if the marriage dissolves. With Prenuptial agreement in places emotions can be just that emotions and what happens during a tough emotional period doesn’t have to have a long term effect on both peoples lives.
How to spot a gold digger before marriage? Ask for a Prenuptial agreement