Is Foreign Ladies a Scam?
Finding a Foreign wife can be expensive, so in my opinion if you are going to go in this direction it makes much more sense to choose the best company. Now although I will admit ForeignLadies.com has the best looking website I’ve seen online, being that I find their website very easy to use. I would have to also say that I don’t recommend them when it comes to their services.
The one thing you might enjoy about ForeignLadies.com is that ladies contact you. Personally I’m not sure if this process is automated or not and by that I mean when I signed up I wondered if these women were really contacting me or if it was all done automatically to make me use their pay to contact ladies feature.
Foreign Ladies Dating
I say this because I’ve signed up for other dating websites in the past were as a free member I had all these supposed beautiful women contacting me, wanting to hook up and as soon as I upgraded my membership or paid to contact these lovely ladies back they all “magically” disappeared.
So as a test on ForeignLadies.com I ask these lovely ladies to please address me by my first name if they will be contacting me. To this day I haven’t received a single email from a single lady that will address me by my first, last or username name. Another thing I’ve noticed is that all the girls I winked at didn’t reply back. That could be that they are simply not interested but I winked at a lot of women so I found that a bit strange.
Foreign Ladies Compared to a Foreign Affair
One main thing that makes me not like ForeignLadies.com is I can’t see many testimonials of their service, I’m sure they might have some but compared to A Foreign Affair it’s not that much.
A Foreign Affair from my perspective has a lot more profiles and shows a lot more proof of their services they even have a live show every Thursdays. I know for a fact A Foreign Affair is a legit company and the way their process is done is way better for a person like me. I have already booked my first trip and I have been in contact with quite a few ladies from the Ukraine, South America and the Philippines they are all great and beautiful ladies, very nice and most important marriage minded.
A Foreign Affair seems to know this business inside and out, I am platinum member and it’s a much better feeling for me finding women that are serious about becoming married. Many of the woman I’ve spoken to through A Foreign Affair are ready to make that commitment and truly want to know more about me, I don’t feel rushed and for once I feel like I am on a leveled playing field. A Foreign Affair also makes no guarantees but they have clear recommendations in place to assure you receive the best chances to find happiness. At the end of the day for me that’s all that matters whenever I use a dating service.
Foreign Ladies Conclusion
Personally ForeignLadies.com doesn’t have enough services in place for me and also of their services appear to be a bit suspect. I personally don’t recommend them. But don’t let my opinion stop you from trying their services.
From my perspective I found A Foreign Affair to be a much better option. With A Foreign Affair they have nothing to hide. Also they have live shows lots more profiles with videos and they also have a lot more ladies. I can also say that I really enjoy their platinum features which enables me to contact allot more ladies and also view more video’s. I also enjoy the fact that they A Foreign Affair is very honest and upfront and that they can be easily found and contacted. Furthermore the videos that Foreign ladies charges you to view can be seen for free at A Foreign Affair
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I’m glad to see that some other guys out there are also unsure about the authenticity of Foreign Ladies.com. I am a born cynic, so I was a bit sus. from the start. The first thing that made me wonder about them is the quality of the girls’ photos. They’re all model shots, with professional lighting, some with backdrops, some with just furniture, and the girls are all dressed in clothes from the company’s wardrobe, (because many wear the same outfits), and many are in the same poses. O.k., so maybe they just want the girls to look their best in order to “sell” themselves to you and have a good chance at getting a husband. Fair enough. However, some of them have too much make-up on, which is not a big problem, but you want to see what they look like without all the warpaint, because that’s what you’re going to wake up next to. She’s not going to wear all that in bed with you, so it is nice to see the girls in some natural shots, so that you know what you’re really getting.
Also, I was dazzled by the number of letters I kept receiving from the ladies, (hundreds), like the bloke earlier here, and also the titles of those letters in the inbox – committing to love me “endlessly” for the rest of my life, etc, even when they had never met me or talked to me, and all without me even having a picture on my profile!! I wrote to the company about this, asking how these girls could write stuff like that without even knowing me; were they so desperate to get out of the Philippines that they would grab any guy that came along, etc. That guy Jorge wrote back to me saying the same thing to me as he did to the bloke before me here, that the girls do an intro. letter for their dream guy, and that I must just meet a lot of girls’ requirements.
O.k., fine, but that sort of thing does make a guy wonder. The next thing which makes me wonder is that Foreign Ladies.com does not take Paypal payment. This is silly. They encourage you to use a credit card, or otherwise, as was told to me in a reply to an enquiry I made about that, you can send a cheque or money order – (in U.S. dollars); surely that last bit is so that they don’t have to spend any commission changing it from another currency. That does not encourage me, and I know that I’m not about to go spending a lot of money with a company who does things in a strange way like that. I want more assurance. Besides, $7.50 is a lot just to send or receive a letter! Note that A Foreign Affair doesn’t take Paypal either.
Now the other strange thing which has not been mentioned here, or anywhere else that I have seen: “FOREIGN LADIES.COM” AND “A FOREIGN AFFAIR” ARE RELATED! THEY ARE RUN FROM EXACTLY THE SAME ADDRESS IN PHOENIX, ARIZONA! You will find evidence of this on Foreign Ladies.com in their Terms and Conditions, under “Online Conduct”, 2nd sub-paragraph. On A Foreign Affair it is there on the front page, at the bottom. So, these two sites are run from the same office – nothing illegal about that but thay don’t make mention of it anywhere either. Now for the other bit related to that – THE GIRLS ARE THE SAME ONES ON BOTH SITES!! Yes, it’s true – if you put both sites up side by side and do some searching, you will see that the girls are on both sites. In fact, I have found girls on A Foreign Affair, and then searched on Foreign Ladies.com for the same girl. A lot of the time she will pop up, or if she doesn’t then, she does in a few days. So, The girls are put onto A Foreign Affair first, and then some days later the Foreign Ladies site puts them up too. Again, not illegal, but why do it that way? Maybe it is to give us an alternative if we don’t want to pay too much, (ie: A Foreign Affair charges $9.99 for the same letter that Foreign Ladies charges $7.50 for! – unless you sign up as a Platinum member!). Foreign Ladies also runs tours for you to meet the ladies – the same tours as A Foreign Affair. Obviously they all hook up together. The charges are all the same too.
So, these two sites are run by the same people, and one is cheaper than the other for access to the same women. Neither one accepts Paypal as a form of payment, I don’t know why. They jointly run overseas romance tours for about $1800.00. I don’t say that there’s necessarily anything illegal or illegitimate in the way that either company operates, and I do not say that they are scams, but I do think that they are clumsy, that is that they could operate in a better and more transparent way, a way which would instill more confidence in their clients. I know that I am not confident enough in their operation to hand over my hard-earned money. I leave it to you to make up your own mind.
I joined A Foreign Affair earlier this year and have come to the conclusion that they are not straight-up.
In the last several months, I have only had time to contact 4 ladies on this site.
EVERY contact experience was marred with problems. So much so, I question the legitimacy of AFA’s Letter Forwarding/Receiving service
and whether the actual reply letters are real. On multiple occasions, I was notified of a reply letter in my inbox. When I would open my in box and select the “new” letter and then pay for the letter, it would turn out to be bogus. It was either a duplicate of another letter already received or there would be no letter at all. Also, I would receive an email notice of a new letter and, when I check my in box, there was no new letter. On another occasion, I sent a letter to one lady that I had been corresponding with over a 3-4 month period, the contents of this particular letter was questioning certain practices of AFA. After two weeks had gone by with no reply from the lady, I checked my In Box and my Sent Box. The subject letter had disappeared! There was no trace that it had ever existed or had been sent.
Bottom-line, in the last year I have tried about 8-10 different international dating agencies and this one ranks at the bottom along with such notable, infamous sites as Chnlove.com. It would be nice if there was at least one decent site that was impeccably honest. Posted 8/10/10
Interesting… I’ve personally contacted several ladies using a foreign Affair with success. On quite a few occasions it did take some time to get a reply. The difference might be that i am a Platinum member I’ve actually never used their email service before, my guess is you are looking for women in the CIS region, in that case then yes most of them request you send mail through Foreign Affair’s service, with this problem you should probably contact a foreign affair directly by phone. The phone number is at the bottom of the page
As a platinum member i get access to 100 emails a month when i send emails i usually translate them first before i email the recipient. I understand what your saying and it’s the reason why i never used their email service and one of the main reasons i don’t use foreign ladies. I personally prefer the freedom of having the womans email address and being able to contact them directly for free.
The only problem I’ve encountered honestly is that these women want to meet up ASAP, they like to ask when are you coming to see me because allot of them from my understanding have been stood up on plenty of occasions.
Thanks for your opinion and i wish you all the best.
I have good and bad things to say about ForeignLadies.com. First the good part:
I got an account with ForeignLadies.com (I’ll refer to them as FL). Within hours of signing up with FL I started receiving lots of introductory letters. I received over two dozen in the first day, and I receive at least one to two dozen every single day. I would say that 80% to 90% of these women are very attractive, and about half of them are gorgeous, truly beautiful women with vague profiles, but they seem nice and certainly desire to get married.
FL is owned by the well respected A Foreign Affair.com (I’ll call them AFA) agency, and so I felt comfortable trying FL out. It costs $7.50 to READ or WRITE an email (with 2000 character limit) with FL, but, this is slightly cheaper than the $9.95 that it costs on the AFA site, so it’s actually a slightly better deal, which is why I decided to try out FL. My reasoning was that I would gain access to all that AFA offered anyway, plus other sites as well–and they were slightly cheaper.
I can tell you that from my experience I believe that you are given a higher priority by using FL because I also have an account with AFA and I receive ZERO emails from that account for the VERY same profile that I posted with ForeignLadies. So my activity from FL is huge, and zero with the AFA parent company. So, I’m skeptical as you probably are reading this. These are real women who do write to you. I think that they all have their standard introductory letter and they simply broadcast them off to any guy who happens to come up on their standard daily key word search engine. So the women are sending them, not the agency in my opinion, they just don’t give much thought to most of them–it’s a numbers game. Having said that, there were a few women who wrote me back a few days later because they really wanted to talk to me, and two women who were like stalkers. But these women are real and they are the ones writing you. It seems like a scam because the emails are processed in bulk so you get hit in blocks from various agencies, but it appears real to me.
So, from what I can see, FL is a great site to meet true women. Now for the bad parts:
Once I started using FL, it really goofs up the agency if you try to use your AFA account on the same girl–they don’t know how to do this at all!
FL doesn’t have a customer service phone number and using email with them is really bad. They don’t read your emails very well and then you spend many email attempts over several days to get something resolved. It’s really bad customer service in my opinion.
And my worst complaint, which is why I’m writing is this, they really hold the women hostage, this is there income, and they don’t want you talking to the women outside of their agency. When you talk to these women, if you try to get their contact info, I suspect they are coached against going outside the agency. It is my guess that they tell the women that they are safer by talking inside the agency. I say this because of some previous interactions with some women and through spending hundreds of dollars in emails to just one woman who I’ve grown to love (as much as you can via email) and she loves me. We really hit it off, and it’s time to go to the next level and start talking on the phone and email directly. But when she went in to sign the email release form, the AFA Philippine office talked her out of signing the document. They wouldn’t give her the document to sign and instead pushed her to just keep writing me with their system and suggested that we talk on the phone using their service, which will cost $6/minute. My girl talks decent English and we don’t need the service, but they are trying to get more money out of me. I’m angry over this, and thank God I’m able to just call the corporate AFA office up and get this straightened out; which I’m going to. But I’m really angry that I’ve had to spend over $100 in emails just dealing with customer support crap that should have never happened. I’m going to try and get some of my money back from emails wasted doing that once I’m able to talk to my love directly.
I truly expect that I will marry this sweet, beautiful, wonderful lady, but what a nightmare in the process! I can’t believe that they are making it this hard to get her contact info, especially after I’ve spend hundreds of dollars just to talk to this one woman. That’s bad.
It sound 100% like a scam to me. I’ve used numerous sites and on this site it has all te telltale signs of a scamp. How could you continue using this site after all you’ve been through. There “bleeding” you! Sorry to say . . .
I’ve used many sites . ..what you describe here has all the telltale signs of a scam. Sorry to say . . they are just out to bleed you. Your lady is probably in on the scam and receivig a kick back. Why else is she going along with it. Particularly in light of the fact that if your both communicating . . directly . .phone or otherwise . . . there are many ways where each of you could have provided each other with a direct telephone number . be it a friend of hers or otherwise. I’ve dones this plenty of times. If the women is serious about you . .she would find a way to open the door for you. Don’t mean to dissappoint you.
I’m not sure if you were directing your comments at me but I respect your opinion and thanks for voicing it i wish you all the best
Russ Haynes
Vulgar, disgusting letter titles compared with Sweet profiles – PURE SCAM
I have received in my In box all these letters (obviously pre-written … and by the appearance of the titles NOT written by the ladies themselves) … They are totally suspicious with letter titles like this: will you join me and have SEX with me?? I will pump you with my intimate love Want to see my pussy? I feel Hot… first time to ride, teach me how… Who the hell is writing this shit!!! It certainly isn’t the sweet Filipino girls I have seen pictures of … sure they want to look sexy and attractive …. But NOT like this … I have know many Filipinos over the years living in Toronto … the women are very sweet and are seriously looking for a husband, family and children. I have NEVER heard them EVER talk in this manner! Read below just ONE example out of many I recieved. YOU tell me what is seriously wrong with this picture. The title of the letter in my IN Box and the actual sweet profile description of the girl is not only an insult to her and me but also low-life greedy sleeze balls who do not care about hurting people or playing with their lives. STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE. IT is a class A looking site … but a class F operation.
I bet you need it, A hand job?
DawadmiB113085 – Very fun to be with approachable, optimistic, kindhearted, and very friendly… I understand woman, full of sense of humor, honest, sincere and a responsible woman who is open to all views and points in life. A woman with full of confidence to fight the challenges given to me in this cruel, but mysterious world… Having new friends is actually the main reason why I am here in this site and who knows being a friend it will lead us to marriage. I’m ready for marriage with the right man. I’m a people type of person, likes being around with people. But also sometimes I’d rather be alone and be myself. I am very practical of spending my own money, example I don’t buy things expensive stuff that are unnecessary. I rather use it for long term investment or something that can be very useful. Nothing comes so easily when worked hard for what I want. I am smart in choosing my friends. I am family oriented; also I like to have at least one achievement in a year as a self -challenge.
Okay, a few thoughts here regarding Foreignladies. Back in April 2007, I did write a lady from Thailand. We exchanged letters (yes, at $7.50 a pop), I go to Thailand often, so I asked to meet her in Bangkok office.
She was there, we went to lunch…dinner..then I went up to my condo in Chiangmai. She came to see me the following week: we ended up in a relationship until March 2010. Not a full time relationship, I was working 7 hours away from Thailand…but we met every three months or so for 2.5 years. But when I told her I was moving to Thailand full time…it was then she told me “I am staying in Bangkok.” Not a happy ending, not what she seemed, but she was real.
However…after we ended it..I went back online again…and joined A Foreign Affair. And used Foreignladies again….and oddly enough…(like everyone, I got the 50 letters a day or more on Foreignladies, I KNEW that was a scam, it is a scam.)
Soon, I found a lady..on both sites. Same lady.
She wrote me first at Foreignladies. I responded, she said she was “coming to my hometown soon.” I asked how she could meet me, as Foreignladies won’t give direct contact info (a sure sign of a SCAM fellas), and she replied ” no problem, I will meet you.” Then, I saw her same profile on AFA…and decided it would be much better to write her there, and get contact info. I did: no reply.
Yet, “she” kept writing me at Foreignladies…so…I wrote AFA and asked: “Are you affiliated with Foreignladies?” I got NO RESPONSE.
Then, she wrote me at Foreignladies again, saying “I am here in Bangkok now!!”…and when I paid the $7.50…there was NO CONTACT info. next day, again” Why won’t you meet me”, like an idiot, I paid again: no contact info.
I wrote AFA again….and copied and pasted the Foreignladies letters, again asking if they were affliated.
I get a reply saying “they are investigating it”…then complete silence. No replies when I wrote and asked how the “investigation” was going.
And so, I closed my Foreignladies profile…but still got up to 100 letters a day….so I wrote this creep Jorge, and asked how it was possible to receive 60 letters while my profile was closed? He gave some vague non-answer.
*Warning* I notice now this is a routine scam at Foreignladies: I get many emails saying “I am coming to your hometown soon” in the title…but we all know they can not know, because JORGE is BREAKING THE LAW by not providing their contact info after we fill out any required paperwork. JORGE keeps popping up…too much.
Months went by…I tried again (fell for the scam again). I just finished writing a woman named “HuiDu” from Shenzhen, who claimed she wanted to meet her lover “very soon.” We exchanged a few letters…yesterday, I wrote and asked her to tell me what day she is available to meet in Foreignladies office, and have lunch with me?
Now today she just wrote back: sorry, I am too busy in January…but please keep writing and maybe I can meet you in February. But if not, I hope you meet other lady in Shenzhen soon” and with that, I got a ton of new letters “from” 30 Shenzhen women.
What does that tell you???? I should have known: “She” kept saying she was “so shy”…and what if we don’t like each other when we meet?”
What woman goes online half undressed to meet men…and then when one writes her, she is “so shy”??? I am an average looking fella, not Hollywood material, not Tank Abbott. Just another JORGE scam.
And regarding the other comments about P.I. girls not speaking or writing like that: He is absolutely correct, and any time you get one of those “I am dying to ride you” letters’ Some Filipino scamming wiseguy write them. Guaranteed. I believe it is Jorge.
Why do I say that? because AFA, whan asked, would not reply to my question: do you and Foreignladies USE THE SAME TRANSLATOR??? I think it is JORGE doing this scam.
A scam. So, in closing: it looks to me like Foreignladies ONCE was legit: no more…and I think AFA a total scam now too. Total Scam.
yes, perhaps if you look carefully (the Thai lady was dressed plainly, not made up, not a model) and see a profile that does NOT look slick and done professionally, you might still get in touch with real lady.
But the “beauty queens?” Obviously, they are not real; forget it, do NOT waste your time or money.
Good luck my friends…be wise.
they write their own letters to you, the ladies are not in contact with you now will you be provided their email, just an endless letter writing scheme. i found one lady through another site and she claims she did not write any letter to me, yet i receive countless letters on her behalf through foreign ladies. what a scam
FL is a scam!
I am in my fifties and wanted to meet a 40 something lady from Cost Rica or Colombia and I received dozens of letters from filipinas in their 20’s and a few from Ukraine also in their 20’s amd 30’s. Seriously?? I manybe experienced in life, educated and realtively good looking for my age but 20 year olds interested in starting a family with me; I don’t think so!!!
I even deleted all my information – I mean everything – from my profile and still received letters from filipinas and yes many were with lewd titles. Their profiles appear on AFA in many cases too. Buyer beware!
Steve’s comments above (sept 2010) sound way too much like a commercial in support of AFA ans sound like an AFA staffer in disguise.
Read it carefully; proposing the Platinum service; suggesting you call on the number below and even using a phrase AFA use a lot concerning meeting the lady soon. Very suspicious!
@ LyonguyII I work for myself I’m a blogger I could honestly careless what you do with your time money or love life. AFA is legit visit their website for yourself call them watch the videos participate in the live seminars. They even have a radio show. If meeting foreign women is not your thing stay domestic there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. But what you’re doing is you’re bashing something without giving it a try. AFA’s Columbia trip is one of the best I’ve ever experienced in my entire life. The women we’re beautiful and looking for love. The only issue I ran into was the language barrier which can be a bit difficult and is one of the reasons I choose not to rush into anything just yet. thank’s for comment LyonguyII but don’t knock AFA until you’ve tried it.
Wow, I have to tell you guys out there that FORIEGN LADIES in my view is a complete scam!!! I had been there since 2009 to show you what a fool I was – I spent a ton of money on that site and they regulate every thing you try to say, in addition I know 3 or 4 girls from that site, that I have conversed with in other sites, and they all say the same thing. When I asked them about the letters they wrote those girls told me that and I quote – “I only knew about 1 letter from you Bob they must have wrote the rest because I have not been there for more that 2 months!!!” Another told me that all of the girls there are made to look Gorgeous by contract and that girl I saw in webcam and she was ugly on cam, but looked fantastic in FL!!! Now I tell you I have caught them in there scam red handed and I wish there is something that can be done about them, they need to be shut down!!! And that is not just a guess it is from experience over 2 years of Never beening about to contact a single girl threw them and I sent many letters to Several of them! I say DON’T EVER BE A FOOL LIKE ME- DON’T GO THERE EVER!!!
Foreign Ladies and Foreign Affair are the same thing. Stay away from the email service because it is not the ladies who write you but a staff memeber. How do I know? Because despite not being able to exchange contact info, I do have contact info for several of the ladies. I spoke with one by phone, whom I had exchanged numerous letters and she told me she did not write those letters. Basically, their staff is writing the letters so if you go on one of those tours to meet the one you’ve been corresponding with for months, you will find that you don’t know anything about her when you get there. How nice.
@Allen you clearly didn’t order the email addresses and you clearly didn’t correspond with the ladies by phone. Also based on your comment I don’t think you’ve been on a tour with a foreign affair before.
@steve
You clearly do not know about the inside operations of the site and are willing to defend it because of outside knowledge. There is one point I wish to bring and that is that just because one has had “positive” experiences it does not give one the right to discount the negative experiences others have had which are still valid.
A customer is not an administrator period. They only see things from one vantage point which is the vantage point of themselves but the administrator has full view of all details of a site and what happens on the inside (note the word inside) unlike the case with the customer.
When I tell you that the administration is involved in a underhanded plot one should not disbelieve such. One international dating site that was started by someone left loveme.com because they found out that there was corrupt elements on the site. They were internal members of the site not external members mind you and saw what was going on. Such cannot be seen by the experiences of just one customer and their experiences are just as valid because they seem to know what was going on inside of the site.
By the way-tours are the outside of the site not its inside. Never let that point get confused at all and never should one who is not an administrator of the site confuse others with that point as well.
To clarify about those who left loveme.com because of corrupt related elements they were a man and his wife and have now started their own dating site which is more of a introductory site instead.
@ Timothy Stranger ~ Have you gone on the loveme.com tours before? I have until you’ve gone I don’t think you’re in a position to question me. loveme.com is doing the best legal job possible you if you question them come join me on their next live radio show.
total scam, letter writing scam no real contact, wrote a lady that i found on another site, and she said she had not received any letters through fl. a total scam,
after yahoo took dating site off women profile from russia all scams
and bypassed yahoo security to leave profile and send mail. In todays international dating world foreignladies is a scam. Mariage from dating sites none or a few reasons no communication same language age difference cultural difference.FL foreignladies is all about money as it costs nothing to pc generate translate email at 7 usd a letter scam to start women write for free on this site many ligitimate russian dating sites women pay to join. No contact info can be given from this site unlike many other sites and expected to travel to different countries. Total scam yet bottom line $$$ they do not care. Beware of this site contact attorney general if they close you account for no good reason. Total scam from arizona with another site same building you figure it out.Bad enough being scammed by women foreignladies site is unscrupolous and take you before you write letters to female dentist 21 verified profile no high sckhool profiles of women that make money working for site are put to front different photos clothes many look like porn shots.
Very much truth here. Do homework at best and try to understand that russia is still coming out of communism? All women here at least 90% on FL website sister site same building jims list women are led to sites through advertizing in their country. Why do you not see american canadian women on these sites?? Think it through. Throughout russia ukraine europe eastern block countries their local dating sites same as here in U.S. Some on for a month then log off. Why would a young attractive russian ukranian eastern block women want to leave everything and after meeting a man once or twice leave country. Does not happen. They can and do marry in respective country. No reason to post on these sites. Many photos are gussied up real women not good to see same photo.In newspapers in these countries women are led to dating sites through responding to different ads and not all dating site. Waste of time money to think you will find anyone on thousands of photos and half as many U.S. based scam sites. Businesses not dating sites.To take your $$
This website is a TOTAL scam. I have spent way to much money on it & have gotten NOTHING in return. I made the mistake of talking to several ladies at the same time, hoping that one of them might turn out to be the woman for me. After talking to them for 2 months & supposedly developing a relationship with them, they started telling me they were going to come see me at Christmas & New Years. Then right before the holidays they all made excuses why they couldnt come. They promised me they would come later but now I know they are all liars & phonies. I would get 100 letters a day, even from women I had not requested letters from. I called “Joe” the jerk that runs the website & he gave me some bullshit excuse why he couldnt do anything about it. He also ADMITTED to me that the letters are not sent by the ladies themselves, but by staff members! Also, I would get the exact same letter 3,4 & 5 times from the same lady in the same day! I would also get letters that had the exact same title from more than one lady, so these guys would take one letter & send it from thousands of different “ladies” even though they had no idea what it said! Please dont do what I did & waste money on this website. It is a total fraud & I hope someone sees this review before they spend one dime there. I lost a lot of money for nothing, please dont be a fool like I was.
I read some place in the small print that the people who run the website sometimes send out mail to guys in the name of some girl. That is to make you think the girl is interested in you and you will spend money to read or write to her, but it is not really the girl you are talking to or is talking to you. And yes they will never let you have real contact with any girl. It always has to go through the company. One thing I don’t like is that they want to translate for you and if you talk to Philippine girls you don’t need or want that. She can talk to you directly but they will not allow it. It is just a money making scheme it seems. You could spend thousands of dollars trying to find a girl you like who likes you back. The only way to ever meet “the girl” in person is to take one of the trips they offer. There is no other way I have found to ever be able to communicate with the girls except to pay and keep on paying.
@bill most men and most women want to meet in person, based on my experiences women won’t take a man seriously until he goes to visit her, a lot of men make false promises, get girls hopes up and then break their hearts by never going to visit them. This thing goes both ways and for guys that only want to sit at home and talk to women via email messages they get upset when they join and then find out that the woman they were interested in are no longer interested get engaged or get married. The men who takes the trips will have the most success, the ones who don’t waste money. If your budget doesn’t allow you to go on tours avoid signing up until it does. This may sound harsh but it’s the best explanation I can give based on my experiences. These women aren’t robots, some of them are shy, they do have feelings, they do have expectations, they do want to brag and show their friends that their boyfriend is real.
It’s real life bill, step out of the cyber world and consider the feelings of these women, many which are in this to find true love. A Foreign Affair is legit, radio shows, visual and video testimonials, phone support email support, tours, television appearances, what more proof do people need. You’re either in or you’re not and if you can’t afford it right now my advice to you is not wait until you can afford it. It’s really that simple, and it’s only one option, if the money is the problem stick with free dating websites.