There’s no such thing as one size fits all. All women are different, their motives are different, and in many instances women are justified in coming to the conclusions they reach based on their reality.
Understanding A Foreign Affair International (Not a One-Size-Fits-All Solution)
When we write about A Foreign Affair International, do not confuse it with a one-size-fits-all solution. Also, don’t assume that foreign women are automatically interested in Western men—because most are not. A woman can find a horny, immature man anywhere; those types of men are a dime a dozen. Sometimes the men are the problem. So before you, as a man, imagine that you’re a “good man,” let’s first determine whether you truly are one.
If you don’t, can’t, or are disinterested in paying the bills, you’re not a good man. If you don’t take care of your children, you’re not a good man. If you beat your wife or girlfriend, or complain about everything, you’re not a good man. Most importantly: if you didn’t analyze your wife or girlfriend’s personality before getting into a relationship with her, you’re not a good man.
Men Who Choose Poorly (Thinking With Lust Instead of Logic)
As men, we often think with our penises. But if you base entering a relationship purely on your erections, and you marry or get involved with a horrible woman, that is your fault. Now that we have that out of the way, we will discuss Western women who regret losing a good man.
The funniest thing to observe is an unattractive woman who may have been cute in high school or college, who marries a great guy who might be “boring” by her standards, and she leaves him because she imagines she has all these other men checking her out. She believes she can get alimony and welfare to maintain her lifestyle.
Sex vs Commitment: Why Western Women Misread Male Interest
If you’re a woman reading this, do not confuse men who want to have sex with you with men who are willing to marry you or take care of you. These are two entirely different things. Even if you saw a friend leave her boyfriend and walk straight into a new relationship, don’t assume it’s as easy as it looks—or that the new relationship will last.
Because men—especially good men—pay very close attention to the personalities of the women they’re interested in. A good man can take care of himself. A good man does not need you. In fact, he doesn’t need a woman at all. He wants a woman. He wants a woman he can take care of—one who will appreciate him—but he does not need her.
Why Good Men Don’t Come Back (Observant, Patient, and Selective)
Now, if you had one of those types of men and you left him, imagining that you’d easily find someone similar, be warned: good men are observant. They ask the same questions a woman would ask them, such as: Why would any man leave her if she looks so sexy? And he will patiently wait to see what’s really going on.
Good men can have sex anytime they want. When you’re a good man, all it takes is becoming consciously aware of your value, and it’s all over for women trying to manipulate him. Good men also observe if you’re a flirt, and why you’re a flirt. Are you doing it for attention? To protect yourself? Or are you a flirt because you’re a slut? Good men do not like feeling embarrassed. If his girlfriend or wife gives off the scent of a woman who sleeps around—or used to—she may at best become a “friend with benefits.” Women know when they’re being strung along, and to combat this, many will jump from relationship to relationship to prove to that good man that she doesn’t need him.
The Regret Sets In (The Hidden Emotional Cost for Women)
But deep inside, that is usually a woman feeling regret for leaving a good man.
Cradle-to-grave government welfare is something older women cling to once they’ve given up on dating or marrying a man. This is natural—why wouldn’t they? Most women never wanted to work a 9–5 job anyway. Women working 9–5 is a feminist movement that should have only applied to about 10% of women. Now it has become the norm, and most women want nothing to do with it.
The Decline of Welfare Security (And Why Women Fear Aging Alone)
Everyone knows cradle-to-grave welfare is already dying—and not in the way most people imagined. For example, let’s say you’re a woman with a home. You own your home free and clear, you have money in the bank, but no man. Now imagine something breaks in the home. Sure, you can pay someone to fix it—but these are ongoing maintenance expenses. If you do not have adequate income for the rest of your life, these expenses will eat away at your nest egg. These problems affect affluent women with money—so imagine the reality for the average woman living paycheck to paycheck.
You can convince yourself you have leverage over a man, but the reality is that if you left a good man to be an “independent woman,” chances are that somewhere down the line you may regret that decision. We know many women who divorced their husbands because “he wasn’t satisfying my needs,” and later we discover she was merely bored with her relationship.
After Age 30: Why Western Women Carry “Baggage” in Men’s Eyes
Once you’re a woman who hits 30, a good man is going to look at you—as a Western woman—as someone with baggage.
Now, why a man will look at a foreign woman of the same age differently is because in non-Western countries, feminism as we know it is not a cultural norm. A woman in a non-Western country does not look at a man as competition. She sees him for what he is, and he sees her for what she is. If it’s going to work, it will work; if not, both parties walk away.
Why A Foreign Affair International Works (Skipping Scams and Time Wasters)
What makes A Foreign Affair International different is that you’re skipping the online or offline scam phase. If you meet a woman in a foreign nation outside of A Foreign Affair International, you may encounter challenges—she could be a prostitute, she could be trying to rob you, or you may run into legal issues. With A Foreign Affair International, you skip all of the nonsense because it’s an introduction service—meaning both parties are there for the purpose of starting a relationship.
There is a barrier to entry when joining A Foreign Affair International that men overlook: if you can’t afford to use it, you can’t ruin it for everyone else. A lot of horrible men ruin domestic and international dating because they’re not good men—they’re horny men looking for sex. That’s not what this post is about, and it’s not what A Foreign Affair International is about. It is for serious and mature men who understand and know their value as men.