American Singles Dating

I’ve watched and seen online dating evolve from 1999. At that time online dating was a joke no one was serious everyone was skeptical and some of the basic online features that we enjoy today were nonexistent. On top of this you could barely find any woman at these online websites. Well it’s 2010 now and things have changed tremendously, because of social websites like MySpace and Facebook a lot of people have embraced online dating to the point where specific online dating sites are being created for specific purposes.

American Singles Dating For Adults

Free online dating sites are good for some people but for me it’s all about quality. Anyone can sign up for a free online dating site and pretend to be whomever they want without any consequence. When you get into paid online dating sites (well the good ones) people and ip’s can and will be banned based on strange activity or complaints from other members. Also when you join a good adult singles dating website you know the people there are serious about finding someone. It’s a much different experience.

Free Dating Verse Paid Dating Sites

At a free dating website you will see profiles full of people saying looking for friendship or email chat. Paid dating sites are ram packed full of profiles and singles of people seriously looking for someone for a specific purpose such as encounters, dating or long term commitment. Adult dating websites have a much more mature membership/audience. So if you are serious about online dating in America I recommend using a paid dating membership site such as Adult Friend finder.

Important Aspects of Online Dating

I’ve written about this before and I will say it again a picture says a thousand words and not just any picture a picture that has you out and about. If you have a cheap web cam picture as a male you will not attract many females. As a male you want a picture of you outside WITH PEOPLE around you. Even if it’s family; have a picture with you and some friends, make yourself look out going and social-able & if you don’t have these qualities find a way to get them. Most women just want to have fun and if you’re boring or you’re being perceived as a boring guy your search will be a long grueling one.

On the female side same rules apply except in a bit of reverse role. As a woman you DON’T want to attract weirdoes so it’s a good idea to have pictures of you and your girls out and about. This will keep the weirdo’s and perverts away well some of them, because they’ll (men) assume you have lots of friends and won’t be as bold or disrespectful (well some men won’t). Real men like a challenge just like real women do and if you want to attract the right type of guy you should have some type of outgoing pictures of yourself displayed. Just white out the faces of friends in the photos that you are posting. Weird men online are often intimidated from women who look out going; it posts more of challenge to them, a challenge only a real outgoing males can understand.

Gay & Lesbian Online Dating

If you’re gay Adult Friend finder is still worth a try I won’t really get into this topic being that I am straight male but I have seen quite a few gay profiles and although the situation won’t be exactly the same I am sure what I mentioned above will be similar in the gay community. There are success stories from gay profiles and I’m sure you will be able to find your desired match

Fake American Singles Dating Websites.

Currently I am in a relationship but when I was searching for that special someone I ran into so many B.S dating websites you would not imagine. Most of these fake dating websites do some of the most evil things such as pay people to talk you, so that you’ll join their dating websites and become an paid member; this is the main reason why I am recommending Adult Friend finder on my blog.

I know at least one person reading this post has had this happen to them where they will sign up for a dating website as a free member and have women contacting them left right and center and then as soon as they sign up as a paid member those people who were contacting them just “suddenly” disappear into web space.

I want to explain why this happens in a way you can understand. The online dating business is a very competitive one and when some dating sites are not doing so well they stoop to a level of paying people to contact free members to get those free members to become paying members so that they can brag about how many members they have in their dating database, this in turn “might” help them grow their dating site. Many times this back fires but yet and still this has not stopped many of the dating sites from using this tactic to get unsuspecting singles to sign up. Another fact is people who have been scammed by this method seldom report it most don’t know how to report it, or even know that it has happened.

American Singles Dating Location, Location, Location

Adult Friend finder has the largest adult membership and at the end of the day if you are serious about online dating, online dating becomes a numbers game. I am an average looking guy middle class citizen so the way I look at is the more women I contact the better my chances for a reply. I can’t force a woman to like me or be attracted to me its life so my strategy is and always will be to all the women I am interested in, in hopes of a reply.  A few things to note when joining any online dating website: Location, location, location if you live in New York City obviously your chances of finding someone in your local city will be better than a person living in Maine. I say this to tell you that if you live in a small city you might want to expand your search.

American Singles Dating Profiles

Last topic I will discuss in this blog post is your profile. Be as honest on your profile as possible don’t be something you are not just lay it out there. Let the person you’re trying to meet know who you are so they can make a decision for themselves about you. You don’t want to be labeled a creep or a liar so be honest you don’t have to say everything but give the person a chance to know who you are let your profile be an extension of you as a person. There are millions upon millions of profiles although nothing is guaranteed the chances of you finding someone is very high.

That’s all for now if you are a single adult living America and you are looking for the best online dating site I recommend Adult Friend finder

Best wishes to all please leave me your feedback below.