Online Dating Advice First Message

The first question I have for you before I begin is; are you on the right dating website. If you’ve chosen to do the whole free online dating website thing I hope you have a lot of patience. Free online dating is good i guess to start but in case you haven’t notice majority of the people guys and gals that are on free online dating sites are not serious. If read most of the profiles majority of them will say they are looking to chat or email or be friends.

You can get lucky at these places and meet someone special but for me the saying reigns true you get what you pay for. If you are a guy the hardest part will be the skepticism also you have to understand many of the women on free dating sites aren’t real woman.  Some are in fact men and spammers pretending to be woman to capture you email address and send you truckloads of spam. With free online dating sites there’s NO screening i am not saying this to discourage you i am telling you this so you don’t waste your time.

If you spend a whole lot of time developing your first message to an attractive female on a free site you might in fact be giving your best pick up line to a guy or a spammer. When you are a part of quality online dating site then you don’t have to worry about things like this because everyone has been screened and also everyone has paid to be there thus not as many games.

If you are serious about online dating and you are an adult there is only one site I recommend. The main reason i recommend this site is because it has the most members. Online dating in many ways is a numbers game. Meaning the more the profiles the more your chances of meeting that special someone. The site online dating site I personally recommend is Adult Friend Finder

This online dating site started off mainly for intimate encounters but has now turned into the official online dating spot for adults if you are serious about finding someone and haven’t had any luck else where I highly recommend giving Adult Friend Finder a try.

Online Dating Advice

Your first message should be a 1 paragraph ice breaker, If you are nervous to start what i recommend is taking the parts of the persons profile you are interested in and ask them questions about it. More than your first message i want you to make sure you have the right pictures. If you are signing up for a quality dating website you need a quality picture to display. I have always found pictures that show me as an outgoing guy work very well; you want a face shot, a body shot and also social shot.

This shows you as a real person and not some online weirdo behind a computer. Always post the picture where you are at your best also in everything you do put your best foot forward it’s better to fall flat on your face then to give it a half a heart. I recommend giving it your best so even if you fail you know you tried your hardest. Online dating is not for everyone but if you want to give it a try I say do it.

Online Dating Advice Recap

If you are serious about online dating first things first make sure you get a quality dating website such as Adult Friend Finder secondly profile pic make sure you have a head shot a body shot meaning head and body and also social picture meaning one with you and your family and/or friends. Last but not least make sure you try your hardest and be yourself Online dating is not for everyone and you want to be able to tell yourself well at least i gave a try.

I wish you all the best i you have any questions post them below, because of spammers the comments section below is moderated meaning your post will be seen by me only before being posted. If you have any questions ask away if it’s a private message please say so in your message i will email you back privately at my earliest convenience. Thanks again for stopping by best wishes!