why you should never fear the unexpected

Why you should never fear the unexpected is you cant fear what you dont know or what you dont expect because the truth is most of us really know nothing at all. Most of us are just posers acting like we know it all when in fact we’re just try to get by like everybody else.

Fear keeps people from doing things and causes many dumb problems to pop up in your life. Example if you dont like something about yourself and you continuously try and hide it you will soon find that your behavior will soon change and you will do bafoon like things to cover for your insecurity. When you fear something you then start to compensate. You’ll make up excuse after excuse trying to compensate for your fear which eventually starts making you look weird.

Why you should never fear the unexpected is because well Sh*t happens and it can happen to anyone so I say why worry about it. Yup some of us are more bad lucky than others but who really cares about that. My thing is let me live my life and you live yours. Dont tell me what to do and I wont tell you what to do. Many times i feel like people just have to make mistakes on there own.

Also even though this is straying from the point a bit a dont believe in helping someone who doesnt want to be helped especially if your barely in a position to help yourself I think that in many instances helping someone who doesnt want to be helped makes the situation worse on both parties.

If your reading this its because you want help understanding fears well the truth is be free be yourself. Some people will like you some people wont somethings will be for you somethings wont but dont be afraid to confront any of them. i’m not telling you to go and fight the next person you see. Just dont be afraid running from a situation doesnt mean your scared but running from a situation that you know you can handle well that’s fear, so first things is understand yourself.

figure out what you want and then dont be afraid to go after it. If you’ve got to be strategic be strategic but dont be scared get the job done somehow or when opportunity knocks jump on it, also if you slip up who cares take it as a learning experience for the next time. We all must walk before we run so never fear the unexpected.